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Dear Ms. Disiac,

My friend told me that a girl I like would not talk to someone (male) who likes her. But then she knows someone from 11th grade and she still talks to him regularly, even though she knows he likes her. I haven't told her yet because I am afraid that she will not like me. I am feeling so depressed when she talks to other men. We are in college right now. I am 17 and she is 19. What should I do?

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Dear Closed Out,

Third parties are not reliable sources for information, especially when it comes to romance. You should investigate on your own to find out how she feels. Just go up to her and talk to her. Start slowly by talking with her about something of mutual interest. Tell her that you would like to meet her for coffee. The worst she can say is that she's not interested. Remember, there could be many possible reasons for someone to be closed off. ar for her health you must get checked yourself. If you think that she can't love herself then she can't love you either.

- Afra

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