Dear Ms. Disiac,
I was wondering why some people have all the luck with relationships and others don't. I hardly ever attract any males but people say I am beautiful, I'm out going and really funny too so there is no problem with my personality or looks. Can you give me any tips on how to get guy's attention and make them realize I'm there as a lover not just a friend?? Help! A friend in need.
Dear Getting Attention,
It seems like you may need to focus on one guy at a time. If you are looking for attention from seemingly anyone, that can put the guys in an uncomfortable competition. That may make it harder for a guy who is shy to let you know he is interested. You mentioned "not attracting any males"; you need to focus on one guy with whom you are really interested. If the guy seems interested, spend some more time with him. Go for a walk together and just be yourself. Your personality will get his attention. If not that guy, then there are other ships in the sea.
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